This anonymous self-screening test will help you decide if you might be in an abusive domestic relationship.


Select Yes or No for each question. Please respond to each item and answer honestly.

After submitting the assessment, please refer to the on-screen results for more information about your relationship.

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It Is My Life

I bought your book Stop Hurting the Woman You Love last Saturday. I could not put it down. I read it in three days. It is my life. I live with a controlling, angry, abusive man. He admitted to me that he needs help with his problem and he doesn’t know why he acts this way. I bought the book so he can read it. I hope it helps our family.